Monday, March 1, 2010

Living Here and Now

On Sunday, I was irritated with my family. I was just having a particularly grumpy day. I just wanted to be somewhere else for a little bit. I wanted to be somewhere fabulous. A warm beach with turquoise waters. On top of a mountain overlooking a glassy lake. On the streets of Paris, with nothing but time and my camera. But obviously, no matter how much they get on my nerves sometimes, I wasn't going to leave my family. I escaped for a few minutes to finish up some visiting teaching instead. While I was driving home, I realized I was coasting on fumes, and pulled over to get some gas. A bad Sunday mishap that happens way more often than it should. By the time I pulled over I was so frustrated, I just wanted to cry or scream or both. I turned BYU-Idaho's radio station on and this is what I heard:

“This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now.  The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief.  Opportunities come, and then they are gone.  I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not.  I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and nonexistent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do.  Instead, find joy in the journey—now.” (President Thomas S. Monson "Finding Joy in the Journey" Ensign Nov 2008, p 84-87 )

Ok, consider me chastised. It got me thinking about what is most important to me. And even though I know I would NEVER leave my family for real to escape to a tropical beach somewhere, the desire to be somewhere else did cross my mind a lot that day. What did I miss while I was irritated? How many times had the spirit tried to whisper and I was too distracted to listen? How many opportunities to kiss my family and cherish them had I let slip by? How often do I miss the here and now because I am not patient enough, or too distracted? 

So I am making a new month's resolution. (I can do that right? Am I going to be contacted by father time telling me resolutions are only for the new year?) I am resolving to pay more attention to what is most important. You other distractions can take a hike for a while. 

 Rock-a-bye Baby
Cleaning and scrubbing
can wait 'til tomorrow
For babies grow up,
we've learned to our sorrow.
So quiet down cobwebs,
Dust go to sleep,
I'm rocking my baby
and babies don't keep.

7 comments:

Ally said...

Loved what you shared, thank you. So now you can lounge on a beach and your boys can play on the sand. Escaping still, but with your boys! Totally works.

Anonymous said...

Don't you love subtle reminders... I can't tell you how many times i have heard those through the radio in my car. People who gripe about evils in technology must not be tuned in to the right channels.

Jeff, Traci and Kaden said...

Thank you for this. I too am always thinking and looking forward to the future: things like what I'd do while the kids are in school, picking them up from school and having them tell me about their day, what it will be like to not have a toddler anymore, not have toys scattered throughout. But then I realize that we have such a short time with them being so little that we should just soak it up as much as we can.

Breeana said...

Awww, Miriam!! This is such a sweet post! Thank you for sharing. I love how Heavenly Father tells us things we need to hear, and luckily you're such a great person that you turned on that LDS station and could receive that counsel. You're such a good example!

The Packards said...

love this, thanks for posting

Julia said...

Miriam thanks for sharing this. I needed to hear this after today! Thanks so much! It is definitely true. Sometimes I get so flustered with the small things that Hannah does that I don't realize what I really am missing.

Candria said...

I love you Miriam!